We all have that one person who we let change us completely. At first they change you for the good.. you’re always happy and full of life but eventually, without even noticing, they slowly isolate you from the world, gain control of you.. they decide who you can be friends with, they decide what your idea of fun is, they decide how you get to spend your friday night of senior year and they decide how you feel. They convince you that everything they are doing, all the hurt they are causing you is what you deserve. You give everything you have because if you don’t, they’ll leave you.. you need them more than they need you.. so you just keep giving and getting nothing back because they don’t need to return the favor because they are in control. they own you. then one day.. they leave you and so now you sit. you sit there in your own guilt and sadness.. and you hang on to every word and hand gesture because you are so in love.. you don’t care if they drag your heart through the dirt because remember… they own you. You’ve lost your pride, you don’t have any self confidence or independence.. you gave it all up for them. you never go back to who you were before.. you’re scared to love anyone else because you know how sour the path of love can be. you learn to trust no one besides yourself and you let people walk all over you because you have no strength to stand up for yourself….. they’ve changed you, and now you have to rebuild yourself but you will never be what you once were.